Dominance and Influence: compatibility
The most energetic pair: D sets the goal and the pace, I fires people up. Together they launch projects, but tend to underestimate details and caution.
D and I share a fast pace: both decide on the go, love challenges and can’t stand routine. The difference is focus: D thinks about results, I about people and impressions. They complement each other well: D provides direction and toughness, I provides contacts, morale and the ability to sell an idea. Friction arises when D sees I’s talkativeness as a waste of time, and I finds D cold and abrupt. Both should remember that while they supply the energy, someone has to keep an eye on the details.
How they work together
What they have in common
- A fast pace and readiness to act without long preparation
- Optimism and an appetite for new tasks
- A dislike of routine and micromanagement
Where friction arises
- D demands specifics, I gets carried away with conversation
- I is hurt by bluntness, D is irritated by emotions
- Both are overoptimistic about deadlines and miss details
Tips for the Dominance style (D)
- Start with a couple of minutes of personal conversation, then get down to business
- Acknowledge I’s contribution out loud — for them it’s fuel
- Don’t cut ideas off mid-flight: let them finish, then pick the best
Tips for the Influence style (I)
- Keep it short with a D: the result, the deadline, what you need from them
- Write down what you agreed on so enthusiasm doesn’t drift away from the facts
- Don’t take D’s directness personally — it’s a style, not a judgment
D manager, I report
A D manager gives an I report a goal and expects results — and gets energy, connections and a quick response. But an I doesn’t cope well with dry instructions and a lack of recognition: a D manager should give praise out loud and assign tasks with visibility. Details and reports are better checked along the way than at the end.
I manager, D report
An I manager gets a D report excited about an idea and gives them freedom, which the D appreciates. Friction arises when goals shift with every new idea: inconsistency irritates a D. An I manager should pin down priorities and not change them without a reason; the D should raise disagreement one-on-one rather than argue in front of the team.
In meetings and in writing
In a meeting, D and I are the loudest people in the room: D pushes toward a decision, I toward discussing ideas and people. Together they sell an idea to everyone else fast. In writing, D is brief and I is emotional and expansive; D may find I’s messages empty, and I may find D’s messages rude.
The typical conflict and how to resolve it
The typical conflict: I promised a client more than the team can deliver in time, D is the last to find out and explodes. What’s worth working out is not “whose fault is it” but a rule: any promise about deadlines is agreed with whoever is responsible for delivering it. D should also remember that an I experiences being called out in front of others as a betrayal.
Outside work: friendship, relationships, family
Outside work, D and I are a vivid, active pair: travel, groups of friends, new projects. Both love to act and hate being bored. The risks are competing for attention and impulsive decisions; one of them should be in charge of the budget and the calendar.
Three rules for this pair
- Promise deadlines only after checking with the people who’ll deliver
- Give recognition out loud: for an I it’s fuel, for a D a sign of respect
- Put decisions in writing right after the conversation
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Other style pairs
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